Knowing Your Love Language

Everyone gives and receives love differently. It is important to know what your love language is, and it is just as important to know what your partner's love language is. This way you will both know what it takes for each other to feel truly loved.

What are the different types of love languages?

Words of Affirmation
This love language is all about recognition. These people like to hear kind words from their partners. They do not necessarily want to be showered with compliments, but prefer to hear comments such as "thank you" and "I appreciate you". Simple words like this will show your partner how much you appreciate and value them

Quality Time
This language involves spending uninterrupted quality time with your partner. This does not mean you have to do something special like going on an extravagant date. Rather turn off the TV, phone, or any other distractions and spending one-on-one time with your partner. Preparing and cooking a meal together will be a perfect date for them.

Physical Touch
Holding hands, hugging, a small touch, or even a pat on the back is what this type of language thrives on. Both intimate and non-intimate touches are something your partner will appreciate if physical touch is their love language. Some other things you can do to 

Receiving Gifts
You may think this love language as materialistic and shallow, but it is the complete opposite. Each gift, whether it is great or small, shows that you understand and appreciate them. Something as small as buying them flowers or their favourite chocolate will do the trick. They will know that they are on your mind and in your heart. 

Acts of Service
Actions speak louder than words. This language can be best described as doing something nice for your partner. Giving up a bit of your time to assist your partner with tasks shows how much you love and appreciate them. Think about small tasks that may make their lifes slightly easier like washing the dishes or taking the dog for a walk.

You and your partner may have different love languages. Communicate your needs and spend time getting to know what makes each other tick. Understanding your partner's love language will strengthen your relationship.